I have been in the same situation like you. I have been hurt by my ex before. Is very hurt. Each time i sleep i will just ask myself am i still miss her. But until now, i will answer the same question. Yup i still miss her but not as love but as friend. I need the long time to stand up and said hey, friends i'm ok and we shall have fun. I advise you that once u fall from the well just stand up and survive. At this age you have to try to life alone.
Darren: y u always like tat?pretending knw I was writing wat...u dun knw read chinese,kan?jz using guess oni:P...not the same situation lo,I am not hurting by my ex tis time...I ald stand up and said hey using d shortest time...Now, I am hurting by rumour!!!I ald usual of settle my things alone...anyway, thx ur concern ya(",)u oso gambateh la~
sry lah...i thought ur ex ba...act ur rumour i dt noe...y u mz care other ppl say of it...jz be urself!!!if u think u done tat thing is good jz dt think of other ppl think...
什么打击哦？干嘛讲到如此伤感？我倒想听听。。。
ReplyDelete人，本来就是如此。。。一些人觉得他身边的人为他做的事是应该的！而对他来说，他也当然会很乐意的帮你！
可是，这样的人。。。不会让人觉得很假吗？
我不喜欢帮那些要求我的人。。。然而，我会帮那些真正需要帮的人。。。所以，我不曾想过帮了人会有怎样的回报。。。可是，当你遇到一些人时，他们却觉得你帮他们是应该的！这种人。。。虽然会在你有难时帮回你，可是，这样的感觉不会让人觉得“互相利用”吗？？？
而我，是不会永远求人帮忙的！就算有多难，朋友多么想帮，我也不想！他今天为你所做的，有天会找你要回！很怕如此的人！
很想对他们说！你付出多少就要回多少？？？没那么容易！总有一天你会觉得那是可耻的！一些事，付出了，不一定要回报！只要出自内心的帮忙，你所得到的回报不一定要是实物！哪怕是一句话，也会很开心！生活也会更有色彩！
到底发生了什么事？虽然做朋友的我不会很懂得安慰你，给你意见。。可是记得不要委屈自己，有什么事就和我们分享，不要闷在心里，生活是我们自己的，开心也是这样过， 不开心也是这样过，我们一起选择开心的过好不好？ 朋友，加油！
ReplyDelete文力，到底什么事？没有看过这样伤心的你....什么事都好，天塌下来也好，不能让自己崩溃～想想关心自己的家人，想想他们会多担心你？真的没有看过你这么的难过..不要再伤心了》有什么真的想不开的，有什么委屈就说出来！选择开心的过是你答应过自己的？？不是么？
ReplyDeleteKS：你好像有点离题了。。。哈哈XD，不过你说的也有道理！！别人对你的好，不是理所当然的！更不要觉得是应该的，她/他与你非亲非故，干嘛要对你这么好，所以如果有人对你好，就该珍惜。。。
ReplyDelete只有家人的付出，才是真心不要求回报的。。。
SzeYin：谢谢你的安慰，我选择开心快乐地过，多难熬我也会熬下去。。。加油，我们一起开心吧~
Teh：写错我的名字,哈哈哈XD。。。天塌下来我都会努力顶着，哭过就好了。。。痛过就会醒了。。。是的，我会安慰你要开心快乐，不要想太多。。。现在，我也会加油安慰自己！我会做到的，要被生活打败？没那么容易…我们都加油吧！你也要开心地过哦~
也谢谢你们在我心情低落时，拉我出去散散心。。。
呵呵！我不知道你的意思嘛。。。就随便乱写咯！现在还总算有点头绪知道你在说什么了～～呵呵！:p
ReplyDelete看你现在的心情。。。应该很好了吧？加油啦～～
只想说：一起加油。
ReplyDelete我给你的钥匙。你收到了吗？
Ks: 哈哈，你很厉害。。。就连随便乱写都能写出一个东西来:)我现在的心情，就算不开心，我也会努力让自己不去想太多。。。加油，你也一样！
ReplyDeleteLawrence：加油~你也不要再伤心了。。。
veonli你好坏。都不回我sms或msn的。。。
ReplyDeleteI have been in the same situation like you. I have been hurt by my ex before. Is very hurt. Each time i sleep i will just ask myself am i still miss her. But until now, i will answer the same question. Yup i still miss her but not as love but as friend. I need the long time to stand up and said hey, friends i'm ok and we shall have fun. I advise you that once u fall from the well just stand up and survive. At this age you have to try to life alone.
ReplyDeleteDarren: y u always like tat?pretending knw I was writing wat...u dun knw read chinese,kan?jz using guess oni:P...not the same situation lo,I am not hurting by my ex tis time...I ald stand up and said hey using d shortest time...Now, I am hurting by rumour!!!I ald usual of settle my things alone...anyway, thx ur concern ya(",)u oso gambateh la~
ReplyDeletesry lah...i thought ur ex ba...act ur rumour i dt noe...y u mz care other ppl say of it...jz be urself!!!if u think u done tat thing is good jz dt think of other ppl think...
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